Some of you may have seen a small post I made yesterday about our precious son, Tony, concerning a small vet visit he needed.
Well, as it turns out, that vet visit couldn’t have come sooner. Tony ended up having blockage in his bladder that could have killed him; it turned into an emergency situation.
Luckily, there was an emergency vet close by and we got him in just in time. We got to see him last night after his initial procedure– he was hooked up t IV’s and very loopy, but OK! He’s recovering, but not before we took a huge financial hit…
As of right now, we have an over $1,000 vet bill to take care of for sweet Tony.
And so, I’m running a small commission sale/donation drive! Our goal is to try and make this amount back, so let’s make it happen!
About Tony:
Tony is a 2 year old floofy doofy idiot that my girlfriend, Niku, and I have been raising since he was only a few months old. His birthday is May 22nd! He’s an extremely happy and loving kitty who’s big too! He loves playing, eating, and sleeping. His favorite toys are a toast with a sad face and a small crab! He’s very patient; even if you make him mad all he does is grunt at you. He’s not loud, but he makes his own chorus of strange Tony sounds. We love him very much!
What you can do to help:
🐾 Commission me! (I’ll give you 20% off your total price if you mention this post.)
This incident means Tony will need to go on special food, which as you may know, is extremely expensive. So, if you’d like to help me with Tony’s care long term, here’s some ways how…
🐾 Donating using Paypal or Card (If this link doesn’t work, the donate button on the bottom of this blog’s sidebar works!)
Any amount anyone can give helps us towards our overall goal of recovering from this unexpected emergency, and helps us prepare for any future emergency as well.
This year has been so crazy for me, but Tony was always there for me. Now that something has happened to him as well, no year has been as bad as 2016! But, Tony is going to be okay and I’m determined to do what I can do help him.
If you can’t donate, but would like to help, please reblog this post!
Thank you everyone! Let’s all help make Tony’s recovery be a bit easier!
TONY’S SITUATION HAS WORSENED. HE HAD TO GO IN FOR SURGERY LAST NIGHT, WHICH WILL COST US ANOTHER $1,000! PLEASE REBLOG, SHARE ON YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA, AND DONATE IF YOU CAN!
– “IM SORRY IM SORRY IM SORRY!!”
– “you arent mad at me right? Oh my god you are! IM SORRY”
– “is this my for me? Can I use this? Can I drink this? Can I-”
– “pls help me make this decision for me”
– “do what you please!!!” “What if that makes everyone mad at me”
-studying people intensely because you are afraid you might do something that will make them mad
– Saying something in a tone louder than usual and feeling like this is your last day alive
– low self stem
– feeling mentally and emotionally exhausted after expressing any sort of feeling and crying right after that
– when someone talks or does something in an attitude thats not usual from them and Knowing That It’s Your Fault
– “i dont deserve this why are you doing this for me”
– not knowing the difference between a joke, sarcasm, and passive aggressive speech
– unhealthily clinging to anyone who’s remotely nice to you
– not knowing what to say NEVER
– not knowing how to react to compliments, nice words, genuine care or anything like that and feeling incredibly sick at the thought of someone genuinely loving you
– Crying.
– having to explain every single movement and word you do and say to literally anyone
– being really good at lying and pretending as a survival strategy
– Not living, surviving.
– calculating and overthinking everything you do and say, the time you say it, how you say it, the expression you have when you say it, your voice tone…everything
– getting panic attacks over the tiniest things
– unhealthily clinging to fictional characters and shows
– lack of energy to do anything because you use a lot of effort in every single movement you do
– “im useless”
– when someone compliments you on something and you needing to be Perfect at it because then you dont have any reason to live
– intrusive thoughts
– Perfectionism
– Over sensitiveness
– “It’s my fault.”
– not knowing how to react about criticism
– Isolation
– getting startled when someone touches you
– being hyperaware of your surroundings and at the same time having no time and space perception
– believing everything everyone says
– Feeling like any day is your last day
hey so you know that vicious cycle of mental health making you unproductive which makes your mental health worse? don’t worry friend I am here with something that can help
just get one thing done. break the cycle. it doesn’t have to be some big task. in fact it’s better if it isn’t. decide on something that takes five minutes or less. keep it tiny and manageable – the key is to feel like you’ve accomplished something, so when your brain is all, you can’t even do a single thing all day except lay in bed being useless, you can be like, oh but I did do something, brain, suck on that. it might not seem like much at the time but it helps a lot to have something tangible you can point to
do you have dirty dishes in your bedroom? get rid of ‘em. you don’t have to wash them, just put them in the sink with soapy water. done. easy.
do you have a pile of empty water bottles sitting there? good for you staying hydrated. but you don’t need a mountain of plastic reminders. throw a few in the trash or in recycling. don’t worry about chasing down every single one, just pick a number. get rid of 5 or 10. easy, manageable even if you feel terrible. done.
do you need to do something early tomorrow? get something ready now. just one thing. lay out an outfit. fill the coffee maker so you can just press a button tomorrow. pack your backpack or purse. bonus benefit, future you will have an extra few minutes to breathe in the morning.
do you have a pet? spend 5 minutes with your pet. cuddle them. play tug of war. make baby noises at them. your pet loves you. I bet they miss you when you’re sad. you’ll both feel better.
has it been 3 weeks since you did laundry? pick your clothes up off the floor and put them in a laundry basket. don’t actually wash them or even take the basket anywhere. just collect the clothes for later so they aren’t spread all over. it’ll make actually doing them that much easier when you have more energy
did you manage to wash your clothes but not put them away? fold something. fold another thing. and one more. put them away. three things. you got this one.
did you do your one thing? good. I’m proud of you. even if it didn’t make you feel better, guess what? you did a thing. you got something done, you can be done now. you can go back to bed if you want.
I have learned from experience that doing nothing generates its own momentum. The longer you sit on the sofa doing nothing, the harder it is to get up. The best way to break the cycle is to get up. Just get up and do something small, the tiniest thing, it doesn’t need to be important. Some of the best things to accomplish are drinking a glass of water or going for a short walk and getting some fresh air.
This is 100% true for me. When I’m having a hard time, I make goals that are small and easily obtainable. Then the next step feels less scary. I’ve done this with depression treatment, running, and creative projects and it really helped.
I believe in free education, one that’s available to everyone; no matter their race, gender, age, wealth, etc… This masterpost was created for every knowledge hungry individual out there. I hope it will serve you well. Enjoy!
FREE ONLINE COURSES (here are listed websites that provide huge variety of courses)
Please feel free to add more learning focused websites.
*There are a lot more learning websites out there, but I picked the ones that are, as far as I’m aware, completely free and in my opinion the best/ more useful.
Heaven’s Gate Cult – In March 1997 in a house in California, police found 39 bodies lying nearly in their beds, their heads and torso covered by purple cloths. All wearing black shirts and trousers; in their pockets they each had a $5 note and three quarter coins; each had an armband patch reading ‘Heaven’s Gate Away Team’. They had all drunk a cocktail of vodka and phenobarbital and wrapped their heads in polythene bags.
Heaven’s Gate was one if many millennial and UFO-based cults in the USA. It was originally set up in the early 1970s by Marshall Applewhite together with Bonnie Nettles; who died in 1985. They were known as ‘Do’ and ‘Ti’ she believed themselves to be “The Two” (two ‘witnesses’ mentioned in the Book of Revelation). The cult combined various beliefs – Christian salvation and apocalypse, evolutionary advancement and travel to other worlds. Meme vets renounced family and worldly goods to live a communal life of asceticism and celibacy in a rented mansion they described as a monastery. They called each other brothers and sisters and knew that the next level of existence would be free if gender and sexual activity – some, including Applewhite, underwent castration.
Central to their faith was the idea that the earth, controlled by evil powers, was about to be ‘recycled’ and that they all must leave it immediately, to be ready for ‘replanting’ in another vehicle (body) at a higher level. A video shot just before the suicides show cult members thrilled by the prospect of joining a UFO hidden behind the Halle-Bopp comet, which they regarded as a celestial marker. They had timed their departure to coincide with the comet’s closest approach to earth.
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